Laura Ashworth

1987 - 2008
LocationBradford
Age21 years
Date of Birth3/1987
Date of Death4/2008
Visitors7,796 since 05/08/2008
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On the morning of Monday 31st March 2008 while getting ready to go to work, Laura Jane Ashworth
started having a very bad asthma attack. While her mum Rachel Leake called 999 and tried desperately
to revive her, Laura's airways blocked and she stopped breathing. On arrival at Bradford Royal
Infirmary ICU, the doctors confirmed Lauras brain had been starved of oxygen for so long that she
was completely brain damaged. After 3 days on life support... there was nothing more they could do.
You were only allowed 3 people at your bedside at any one time but they couldn't control us...
no one dare tell us to go! The most important people in your life were all around your bed in ICU,
we held your hand, stroked your face, I so badly wanted to pluck your eyebrows, you would have been
gutted knowing everyone saw them like that LOL!!! We laughed until we cried and cried until we
laughed! yet we all knew... once we walked out of that door... we would never see you again.

To rub salt in the wound, organ transplant authorities refused to allow Laura's Kidneys and
Pancreas go to her sick mother, who has been suffering kidney failure since becoming pregnant with
Laura! Rachel attends St Lukes hospital to have dialysis 3 times a week. Laura's dying wish was
for her mother to have one of her kidneys... what a beautiful gift this would have been to a mother
who has just lost her only child in such tragic circumstances, for Rachel to know that part of Laura
was still living on inside her and for Macie to grow up with a healthy Grandma.

Laura was my best friend, she was my soul mate, she would have been my sister-in-law at one point...
and she was the loving mother to my Neice Macie Faith Murch. She lived at Brogden Hall Farm,
Bradford, with her beautiful mum Rachel, Grandfather Jack and 2year old daughter Macie. She was a
beautiful person, full of happiness and laughter, she didn't hate anyone, never had a bad word
to say about anyone, she loved her friends and would do anything for anyone but more so, she loved
her mother and daughter so very much.

Laura had only just turned 21 just 3 weeks prior to her death. She loved life and lived it to the
full. Her words of wisdom to everyone she met were "Live life to the full, you don't get a
second chance" how right was she!!! and she sure lived her life to the absolute fullest!!! I
just hope your looking down with no regrets girl!!! Macie loves you unconditionally, she will never
forget you, ever. Each night she stays with us we say goodnight and blow kisses to the stars. She
says Bob Marley is looking after you.

R.I.P gorgeous. I love you my princess xxx


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LAURA AND RACHEAL

IT WAS SO SAD TO HEAR ABOUT YOUR MUM,I WAS STEPPING OF THE PLANE IN MELBOURNE WHEN I GOT THE TEX OF SEAN.TELLING ME,IT MADE ME FEEL SO DOWN AND SAD,I KNOW YOUR MUM WAS NOT WELL AND HAD LOADS OF PROBLEMS,BUT IM SURE IF THEY WOULD HAVE GIVEN HER YOUR KIDNEY LAURA SHE WOULD HAVE PULLED THROUGH AND BE HEAR TODAY,GUESS WHAT,THE LAW CHANGES IN MARCH FOR KIDNEY DONARS TO DO EXACTLY WHAT SHOULD HAVE BEEN DONE FOR YOUR MUM,GREAT,BUT SORRY ITS TOO LATE FOR RACHEAL,RACHEAL WAS A GOOD WOMAN AND A GREAT GRANDMA TO MACIE,SHE WILL BE SADLEY MISSED.MACIE IS DOING REALY GOOD,AS YOU WILL KNOW IM SURE.YOUR GRANDAD WILL CARRY ON SEING MACIE REGARDLESS,HE MUST BE A REAL STRONG PERSON TO GO THROUGH WHAT HE HAS BEEN THROUGH,MISS YOU BOTH VERY MUCH,LOVE FROM ALLEN ANGIE.XXXX

Leann Murch (Best Friend) September 1, 2009

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Leann Murch (Best Friend) August 31, 2009

hello lady xxx

hey lor, only just found out about ur mum last week,its such a shame but now your together looking down on ur grandad and macie xxx miss u so much xxx
thinking of you every day xxxx vicky

Vicky Harpin August 25, 2009

hiya bbe

hi babe hws u doing up there good i hope hope ur looking after ur mum i no u will be and looking over are girls im missing them like mad i cant wait to see them i keep getting all upset need to start seeing leann more as well i miss seeing her like u always said live to shout and u r so right darlin..... i no i dnt cum on all the time but u no im always thinking of u always i will never 4 get u ever well nothing to tell u just that danni and gav are having a baby shes 12 weeks woooop wooo i cant wait well ill talk 2 u soon love and miss u millions and millions xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Talia Horner (Friend) August 23, 2009

hia hun,
cant believe wot ive just read about ur mum, ur little daughter havin 2 go through it all first her mummy now her grandma i cant believe it,hope ur both together resting in peace love u lora xxxxxx

Clare Robinson (Mate) August 14, 2009

another sad day

hi laura its another sad year for all of you family and macie first her mummy than her grandma and at such a young age but so was you only 21 and your mum not much older than 42 its a real shame but now she's with you the one she missed so much and our hearts go out to you both and your family and macie. Only 3 and she's lost her mummy and grandma so now she's at peace send our love to her but she will now that we loved her very much. We didnt have chance to say goodbye and thats a very sad thought, but you both no that macie will be looked after and loved and we wont let her forget both of you. lots lots love angie allen macie and all.xxxxxxxxxx

Angie And Allen Murch (Father-in-Law) August 11, 2009

hello lady

hia hun sorry i aint been on 4 awhile dont seem 2 get time 2 myself lately just been workin its boring, well i hope all is gud mate hope its beta up thy than it is down in this sh!t hole, off campin soon 4 my mates bday u no thats gona be a messy 1 ha ha. Bookin 2 go 2 Benidorm 4 beer festival next week cant wait need a holiday gettin sick of it round here.
rite then my lass just fort id fill u in n im gona get off ill stop boring u now ha
thinking of u always
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Clare Robinson (Mate) August 3, 2009

now then betty boo, i no i ant been on hear for a long time, i still miss u just as much as ever, evry day i wish u would just call me up and talk s**t just so i can hear ur voice, me and leann, toni emma and carmel went to wigan sat night we had a rite night there were just one pearson missing tho YOU, u would of loved it there, hope ur ok up there sweetheart talk to u soon love u xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Emma Ryan (Close Friend) August 1, 2009

HI LAURA,I HOPE YOUR HAPPY WITH WHATS BEEN BEEN GOING ON,IM SURE YOU ARE,AND IM SURE ITS THE RIGHT DECISION,EVERYTHING SHOULD TURN OUT FINE,IF ITS POSSIBLE LAURA SEND YOUR MUM SOME GOOD HEALTH,IM SURE SHE WOULD APREICIATE SOME,MACIE IS DOING REALY WELL,SHE DOES MENTION HER MUMMY,ITS REALY HURTFULL FOR ME TO HEAR IT,BUT ITS GETTING EASIER,I WILL ALWAYS BE THERE FOR HER LAURA I THINK THE WORLD OF HER,I COULDNT IMAGINE LIFE WITHOUT HER..WISH YOU COULD BE HEAR....LOVE ALLEN.XXXXX

Angie And Allen Murch (Father-in-Law) July 28, 2009

Hiya Lora love. Its !ssing it down today... please send us some sunshine! Not long till my holidays now... can't wait. Need the break to be honest with ya. Had some good news today... won't put too much on here cos people can take things the wrong way... you know what it is and I know you will be happy with the outcome. It's for the best and it's whats meant to be.

Love ya lots and lots. Missing you like mad. Going to Wigan Peir this weekend, gunna be a mad one. Wish you were here to get ready with like we used to, bounccing about the bedroom tryin on all the different outfits & puttin makeup on macie... she has it all to come lol bless her. xxxxxxxxxxxx gonna go and get ready for work love. xxxxxxxxxx take care xxxx

Leann Murch (Best Friend) July 21, 2009
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